FOR MY DEAR FRIEND,, LANI

Once was here now is gone I will always love forever the laughs, the tears, the smiles …I will always love forever my very best friend.
..Yesterday ginulat kami ng balitang nasa ICU si Lani, dahil sa maagang panganganak 7 months pa lang ang bata, at parehong nanganganib ang buhay nilang mag ina.. hindi ko na inalam ang mga pangayayari basta ang natatandaan ko lang ng malaman ko ang balitang ito para akong binuhusan ng malamig na tubig. hindi ko alam kung bakit, siguro dahil sa sobrang attached kaming dalawa nuong mag kasama pa kami sa work at kahit hindi na kami nag kikita dahil sa pag migrate nya sa Davao ay nakakapag usap kami dahil sa txt at email. Isang kaibigan at kapatid ang turing ko ke Lani. lahat ng mga problems at mga happiness nya sa buhay ay naishare nya sa akin even yung mga pag aakyat nya sa bundok lagi nyang ipinag mamalaki. Alam ko ang kagustuhan nyang mag karoon ng Baby kaya siguro kahit alam nyang bawal na sa kanya mag buntis ay tinuloy pa rin nya. Kahapon dahil sa hindi nakayanan ng katawan nya ay tuluyan na syang nawala..sayang at hindi man lang nya nakita ang kanyang anak. sobrang naiiyak ako kahapon at halos lahat kami mag kaibigan nya ay hindi makapaniwala sa biglaang pangyayari. Gusto pa naman nya na pag bininyagan ang kanyang first Baby eh kami ang ninang at ninong at kung makakarating sa Davao mas masaya. … For you Lani, you will always be my Friend….I know God’s will ito, kaya nangyari,, I know hanggang dito lang ang paglalakbay mo.. And happy din ako dahil uuwi ka na sa ating Ama……

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Celebrate Life with your Friend

“Healthy doses of the right people will fortify your soul and lift your sprits.”

By Lalaine Zialcita

They say that blood is thicker than water. But when our parents, sibling and other relatives can’t help to whom do we turn, to a friend. They are among life’s finest gift.

Staying healthy is not just about being fit. It is also involves sustaining emotional needs to be recognized, understood, and be heard especially during trying time. We often turn the intimacy of relationship with family and friends.
Having close friends is associated with positive emotional health and social adjustment. Some says friendship can fight off depression and improve health.
To be emotionally healthy human beings used to love and be loved and ro feel worthwhile to them and to other.
Strong support system courtesy of close friendships help people adjusts to life’s difficulties faster, improves social skills and paves the way for tolerance and understanding. Cultivating quality friendships takes work many people believe that friends are good investment

How to grow beautiful friendship

Make your friend a priority. – Just gives your friend quality time and exert some effort needed to sustain long and fruitful relationship. This doesn’t mean you will neglect your relationship with your family

Being Selective – simply drop those people who are not worth the time and effort. stay away in a relationship when it becomes a one-way street.

Keeping communication open – Send them personal messages or call them. But nothing beats a real conversation.

Praising generously it is very important for a deeper relationship. Sending and receiving Praise will generate a sense of warmth and well being within you.

Being cautious with criticism – Want to have enemies with your friend? Criticize them like there was no tomorrow magnify their flaws and ignore their good qualities.

Practice loyalty during the best and worst of times is the essential ingredient in solid relationship. No loyalty no friendship?

Showing your love nothing will deepen a friendship more than a practical act of kindness

Genuine friends know us support us and understand us with your friend you can be yourself, share your thoughts, your craziness, your dreams. Friends help you grow and celebrate life.

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